PUT YOURSELF BACK ON YOUR PRIORITY LIST...





Give yourself permission…

I'm pent up. Pressure, pressure, pressure. I need to vent, cut loose. I'm always on my best behavior. I can’t remember the last time I did something silly or fun, laugh out loud…Sound familiar?

What does it mean to have fun? What does it mean to have a good time?

“The proper function of man is to live - not to exist." -- Jack London

u keep goin n goin n goin. . . .

Do you ever feel like the energizer bunny?


Too often we go through life on autopilot, going through the motions and having each day pass like the one before it. Going, going and going.

That's fine, and comfortable, until you have gone through another year without having done anything, without having really lived life.

That's fine, until you have reached old age and look back on life with regrets.

That's fine; until you see your kids go off to college and realize that you missed their childhoods.

It's not fine. If you want to truly live life, to really experience it, to enjoy it to the fullest, instead of barely scraping by and only living a life of existence, then you need to find ways to break free from the mold and drink from life.

What follows is just a list of ideas suggested by Leo Babauta, obvious ones mostly that you could have thought of yourself, but that I hope are useful reminders.


. Love. Perhaps the most important. Fall in love, if you aren't already. If you have, fall in love with your partner all over again. Abandon caution and let your heart be broken. Or love family members, friends, anyone -- it doesn't have to be romantic love. Love all of humanity, one person at a time.

. Get outside. Don't let yourself be shut indoors. Go out when it's raining. Walk on the beach. Hike through the woods. Swim in a freezing lake. Bask in the sun. Play sports, or walk barefoot through grass. Pay close attention to nature.

. Savor food. Don't just eat your food, but really enjoy it. Feel the texture, the bursts of flavors. Savor every bite. If you limit your intake of sweets, it will make the small treats you give yourself (berries or dark chocolate are my favorites) even more enjoyable. And when you do have them, really, really savor them. Slowly.

. Create a morning ritual. Wake early and greet the day. Watch the sun rise. Out loud, tell yourself that you will not waste this day, which is a gift. You will be compassionate to your fellow human beings, and live every moment to its fullest. Stretch or meditate or exercise as part of your ritual. Enjoy some coffee.

. Follow excitement. Try to find the things in life that excite you, and then go after them. Make life one exciting adventure.

. Find your passion. Make your living by doing the thing you love to do. First, think about what you really love to do. There may be many things. Find out how you can make a living doing it. It may be difficult, but you only live once.

. Get out of your cubicle. Do you sit all day in front of computer, shuffling papers and taking phone calls and chatting on the Internet? Don't waste your days like this. Break free from the cubicle environment, and do your work on a laptop, in a coffee shop, or on a boat, or in a log cabin. This may require a change of jobs, or becoming a freelancer. It's worth it.

. Travel. Sure, you want to travel some day. When you have vacation time, or when you're older. Well, what are you waiting for? Find a way to take a trip, if not this month, then sometime soon. You may need to sell your car or stop your cable bill and stop eating out to do it, but make it happen. You are too young to not see the world. If need be, find a way to make a living by freelancing, then work while you travel. Only work an hour or two a day. Don't check email but once a week. Then use the rest of the time to see the world.

. Rediscover what's important. Take an hour and make a list of everything that's important to you. Add to it everything that you want to do in life. Now cut that list down to 4-5 things. Just the most important things in your life. This is your core list. This is what matters. Focus your life on these things. Make time for them.

. Exercise. Get off the couch and go for a walk. Eventually try running. Or do some pushups and crunches. Or swim or bike or row. Or go for a hike. Whatever you do, get active, and you'll love it. And life will be more alive.

. Be positive. Learn to recognize the negative thoughts you have. These are the self-doubts, the criticisms of others, the complaints, the reasons you can't do something. Then stop yourself when you have these thoughts, and replace them with positive thoughts. Solutions. You can do this!

. Kiss in the rain. Seize the moment and be romantic. Raining outside? Grab your lover and give her a passionate kiss. Driving home, Stop the car and pick some wildflowers. Send a love note. Dress sexy.

. Slow down. Life moves along at such a rapid pace these days. It's not healthy, and it's not conducive to living. Practice doing everything slowly -- everything, from eating to walking to driving to working to reading. Enjoy what you do.

. Play with children. Children, more than anyone else, know how to live. They experience everything in the moment, fully. When they get hurt, they really cry. When they play, they really have fun. Learn from them, instead of thinking you know so much more than them. Play with them, and learn to be joyful like them.

. Take mini-retirements. Don't leave the joy of retirement until you are too old to enjoy it. Do it now, while you're young. It makes working that much more worth it. Find ways to take a year off every few years. Save up; sell your home, your possessions, and travel. Live simply, but live, without having to work. Enjoy life, then go back to work and save up enough money to do it again in a couple of years.

. Do nothing. Despite the tip above that we should find excitement, there is value in doing nothing as well. Not doing nothing as in reading, or taking a nap, or watching TV, or meditating. Doing nothing as in sitting there, doing nothing. Just learning to be still, in silence, to hear our inner voice, to be in tune with life. Do this daily if possible.

. Watch sunsets, daily. One of the most beautiful times of day. Make it a daily ritual to find a good spot to watch the sunset, perhaps having a light dinner while you do so.

. Break out from ruts. Do you do things the same way every day? Change it up. Try something new. Take a different route to work. Start your day out differently. Approach work from a new angle. Look at things from new perspectives.

. Laugh till you cry. Laughing is one of the best ways to live. Tell jokes and laugh your head off. Watch an awesome comedy. Learn to laugh at anything. Roll on the ground laughing. You'll love it.

. Make an awesome dessert. I like to make warm, soft chocolate cake. But even berries dipped in chocolate, or crepes with ice cream and fruit, or fresh apple pie, or homemade chocolate chip cookies or brownies, are great. This isn't an everyday thing, but an occasional treat thing. But it's wonderful.

. Try something new, every week. Ask yourself: "What new thing shall I try this week?" Then be sure to do it. You don't have to learn a new language in one week, but seek new experiences. Give it a try. You might decide you want to keep it in your life.

. Be in the moment. Instead of thinking about things you need to do, or things that have happened to you, or worrying or planning or regretting, think about what you are doing, right now. What is around you? What smells and sounds and sights and feelings are you experiencing? Learn to do this as much as possible through meditation, but also through bringing your focus back to the present as much as you can in everything you do.

15 comments:

flavoredmom said...

Your blog is lovely and uplifting. Nice work!

April 3, 2009 at 7:47 PM
AlpHa Buttonpusher said...

Ahh just what I needed to hear..but you know that, right?! ;)

April 3, 2009 at 7:57 PM
Christine said...

Greetings flavoredmom :) Great to meet you! Thank you so much! Hope you visit again soon.

Cheers!
Christine :)

April 3, 2009 at 9:20 PM
Christine said...

Perhaps... 'Great minds think alike' AlpHa Buttonpusher :)

(I needed it too..shhhhhh...)

*Love* your blogs, so brilliant!

Cheers and have a FAB week-end!

April 3, 2009 at 9:24 PM
Hicham said...

Awesome, Christine. Simply the message is that you can't offer what you don't have so you are the key :)

April 4, 2009 at 2:02 AM
Real Live Lesbian said...

Wonderful post! Thanks for the reminder. :)

April 4, 2009 at 4:06 AM
Butternut Squash said...

Last night I had a blast. I spent the day writing a story and put a naughty ending on it. When I showed it to my husband we laughed until we cried. I love every one of your suggestions and always try to live out loud. Peace.

April 4, 2009 at 7:58 AM
Kelly Olexa said...

Perfectly said as usual. I quoted you on my blog today honey!
XOXO

April 4, 2009 at 12:28 PM
Christine said...

Hello Hicham :) 'PERCISELY'!!!

Thanks for sharing :)

April 5, 2009 at 4:20 PM
Christine said...

Greetings Real Live Lesbian :) Your most welcome... I know, I write these to keep myself awake! :)

Cheers!

April 5, 2009 at 4:28 PM
Christine said...

You made me laugh and smile just reading this post and I didn't even hear the ending of your story! :) *I LOVE those moments Butternut Squash- You are a goddess!

“Laugh often,
Dream big,
Reach for the stars!”

Cheers & Hugs!

April 5, 2009 at 4:34 PM
Christine said...

Hello my rockstar friend, Kelly :)
*SO* wonderful to see ya!
And Thank you! Hope all is grand with you.

Sending Hugs your way!!!

April 5, 2009 at 4:36 PM
TR Hughes said...

What a great list of ideas to get back to the source of who we are. Just taking a moment to make sure that we are not floating through our lives asleep. Being mindful of the true source and what life is supposed to be...an expression of divinity being born if only to experience itself...brings us full circle to embrace it all yet again. I so thoroughly enjoy your uplifting and meaningful insights. Keep up the great work!
Truly thanks.

April 9, 2009 at 9:10 AM
Verónica Gran said...

Thanks for the post!! :))

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